It is finally out, he wants a D

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H got out his classic car in the nice weather yesterday and asked me if I wanted to go for a ride. We ended up at a local park. Kids got to go on the playground for a while. It was very nice. Then he went to put it back away for the night at his father's and didn't come home for 2 hrs - his father lives 10 minutes away. This made me angry but to my credit I did not call him or mention it when he came home. He was kind all day except for one comment when I complained about his remote control habits. To me such things are irrelevant but he sees them all as part of the big picture.

One of the members of my group is furious at me that I still let him stay here. I just cannot throw him out, not only for myself but for the kids. Things seem mostly normal. Is this wrong? I guess no one has all the answers.