Even if I could somehow convince myself that I could divorce her, I would probably wait until my youngest leaves home in 8 years. Divorce now will NOT benefit the children in any way. I am still trying to figure out how to implement boundries in a christian marriage where divorce is not an option and is not something to threaten someone with. Likw "Wild at Heart" says, warriors don't go into a battle once, or twice, they go in there however many times it takes. Or worse yet, this is the hill I will DIE on.
Something I read from there that hit home was when he said that men should NOT use their wives to evalutate their marriage performance, but we shold ask GOD how we are doing. Women are BOTTOMLESS pits that can not be satisfied.
