Yes sex is the SYMPTOM of a very BIG issue in marriage. The desease is lack of DESIRE or lack of ADMIRATION. Everything a man does in marriage is intended to win the DESIRE of his women, NOT HER LOVE!! Even Deida says that if the women does not desire you, get the heck out!
So it is ALL about desire, successful relationships ONLY happen when BOTH desire the other. How do you show DESIRE? Well, really in only ONE way, to have ASSERTIVE desxual desire for the other. Everything else is LOVE, and LOVE is not the goal.
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Somehow it appears to me that many men take a single rejection and turn it into a much bigger issue than is initially meant by it.
It is never a SINGEL rejection. LD women reject for maore then they accept. Even as you say, the men you rejected come back the next night and ask again. This PROVES they need you for sex. Otherwise, why would they risk the humiliation of rejection again. You have to realize that when men come to you ladies for sex, we are laying EVERYTHING on the line, so when you ladies reject us, IT IS THE ULTIMATE REJECTION OF ANOTHER HUMAN BEING.
Beyond that, it does not even take rejection, JUST THE FACT THAT YOU NO LONGER PURSUE US FOR SEX IS AGAIN THE ULTIMATE REJECTION OF ANOTHER HUMAN BEING.
If you ladies are not going to deisre us, what exactly are we supposed to be content with? What is it that a woman has to offer that is on the same level as DESIRE? And more importantly, why would that be important to a man?
