This may suprise you but the lack of sex in the M MAY have come after the H's displaying negative attributes NOT before - only they know. Sometimes it is a chicken and egg thing when no one knows which came first. Doesn't really matter - when he is an a-hole he won't get a warm response. Even in my most HD moment the only way I can get past a man being a real jerk and feel sexual is if I "one up" him - if I act as the sexual boss and order him around sexually and change the vibe then I can sometimes get past his jerkiness. Sometimes I can't get past the jerkiness and don't feel sexual for a couple of days. Cemar - for heaven's sake man - change the lense on your glasses once in a while.
