Quote: oh how I so want to send ow a copy of dr with a list of all the other wonderfull books I hear about through this site,
Why wouldn't you? I think this is a very kind thing to do, LL. I know it's awkward, but you can always send it/them anonymously. IMHO, the universe works in interesting ways. Maybe your H was "meant" to meet OW just so you could send her a copy of DR to fix her M? You never know...