CeMar:

I'm just curious. I'm sure your wife is as well aware of your convictions concerning marriage as the rest of us on here. Given that, what do you think your wife might do if you DID bring up D... and telling her... I just can't live like this anymore...

I mean, if I were married to a guy who was willing to go against convictions I knew were so strong... I'm sure it would really floor me.

Corri