Quote: ) Maybe you "project" a certain (unintentional) "hostility" when you interact that causes him to retreat.
ME HOSTILE!! WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT??? I AM NOT HOSTILE? I'M NOT! REALLY I'M NOT! ha ha ha ha!!
yes I see your point.... when we did go to c, c refered to me as a porcipine (actually on the phone with me said he had invisioned me standing there with a machine gun in hand) and h as having some fear of intimacy... oh what a pair we are.