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hmmmm, jethro, I don't know but obviously somethings tickin in that head of yours so do tell...what are your thoughts??

LL if I think, it wont be pretty what I come up with, cause what just popped into my head is that way he doesn't have to look at me and can just pretend he's talking to ow.
Okay, Ms. Perceptive, I'll tell you my thoughts and they are NOT what you're thinking. So, the last couple of days this has happened twice, right? Do you find that you guys communicate better when he's on the phone? How many of your serious conversations have happened this way? He seems to "turn off" in person sometimes, but on the phone he seems more forthcoming. Right? So, I can only come up with a few reasons:
1) Maybe he actually doesn't realize he's being a dork until he's in the truck and actually thinks about it...one big DUH... The lightbulb syndrome...
2) His guilt about the past prevents him from looking you in the eye.
3) Maybe you "project" a certain (unintentional) "hostility" when you interact that causes him to retreat.

I jest, but maybe he'd be more amenable to C if he was on the phone... Sorry, I'm in a wierd mood today!

jethro