ALl of the negatives that are begin desciribed here about her husband or men in general are CAUSED by SSM! Not saying that it is 100% of the time, but if the woman has a low sex drive, then she should EXPECT all these negative attributes to come out. I am totally baffled as to why women don't understand relationship 101. As Dr. Laura says, men are incredibly simple creatures, and she has it correct for most normal guys. Why do women refuse to believe the truth?