I agree 100% with every thing you said. THIS DOES NOT MAKE EXCUSES FOR HER HUSBAND. He obviously has changes to make as well. The whole point though is for the problem to be solved, the women MUST embrace everything in that book, and most women want to REFUSE to believe that it actually IS the way things are. And the worst part is that they must come to this conclusion ON THERE OWN, the man can not do ANYTING to influence this decision.