My mil and a few of my sils say that they will never accept OW, and I believe them. They have been there for me from the beginning. My mil absolutely hates OW. She sees her as the woman that destroyed her son's life and marriage. She said that she will never be a part of my life and I will never respect her. At least she has morals and a backbone. It takes a strong person to not just support her son because blood is thicker than water. However, then there are my fil and bils and they are a different story. I know as soon as I am out of picture, they will accept OW with open arms. I say do what you have to do, but don't pretend to be there for me. I don't need that. I never did anything to my H. He did everything to me and to them. My H up and left me and his family for OW, so it is even harder to see them treating me like I don't even exist. I'll get through this, and my ils that really care about me will still be my friends, and I can do without the others.
