Wow, LL. Looks like we have similar H's. In the morning, they ignore you. In the afternoon, they warm up a bit (like the sun). In the evening, you are nobody again.
Come to think of it. I am like that sometimes (even before this saga). Mood swings, but maybe not as distinct as our grumpy H. It can be our own problem and has nothing to do with our other halves.
Don't FOCUS on the down days. Even in a 'normal' marriage, we tend to ignore them. Now becuase of the crisis, we focus 120% on it. It is not healthy.
I am learning a lot from my BB 'advisers'.... and learning from your post too.
