LL, did your H behave this way before he was seeing OW? You know, in a "normal" M people have their good days and their bad. Maybe it's the weather, maybe he's tired from working so much, maybe...who knows. It really might be because he is in a funk, as we all have those days sometimes. I believe that many of us have become so focused on our Rs and Ses, that we assume every odd or negative thing they do has something to do with our R. Well, this simply isn't true.

Food for thought, is all. Hope you're having a good day otherwise.

jethro