It was only visiting this site that I realised that men do want the emotional connection that comes from sex. When they feel rejected by their wife sexually the emotional side is lost. I have learned way more and my own perceptions have changed.
That said resentment can be a HUGE turn off for a woman and if there is little intimacy in the marriage and the wife feels belittled for being a SAHM and her H is treating her like a houskeeper but expecting passion at the same time just not going to happen without change on both parts.
As regards kinky sex glad I made you laugh blackfoot. Guess I didn't express myself properly re biting. I meant some guys deliberately bite to inflict pain not in passion just to be cruel. I scratch and bite but not in a painful way. HUGE difference IMO. What one person sees as kinky others see as normal. Lots of people are into S&M and thats normal to them. Not into the idea of whipping personally tied up maybe but each to their own.
Hope all the comments haven't put you off posting.
