One of the main reasons I will not file is that I DO NOT WANT ONE, the other is because of our situation, neither would win or get anything from the other. About the only thing we would have to really decide is child support, and we both know that I will do anything for my son. So paying for a divorce would be a waste of my time and money. Now she on the other hand can still go that route if she so desires, a divorce would put an end to us which would be sad, and we would both have to move on. It may come to that, but the little hope she gave me the other day is that she has "no plans to file for a divorce. Now I am not sure what that really means, but I will take it for now.
Not to be mean or rude to her, but if that is what she wants, she can go do that work, I won't.

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