I am with you 789. I could stand to lose a lot also but I will not do anything to move towards Divorce. Luckily I have a family of lawyers but I refuse to use them. I think Nolo has information on filing. Lawyers and well meaning divorced friends can give some harmful advice. My H keeps seeing his recently divorced male friend who is giving him awful advice on custody.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."