Hi, I am new here and just wanted to jump in and give any support that I can. I am also feeling betrayed by my in-laws. My mother in law tells me how much she loves me and that she will never accept another woman who goes around having affairs with a married man. Yet I find text messages that she accidentally sends to me when she is trying to send them to my husband making secretive comments and showing that she is trying to play both sides. In the end, I know that she cares about her son more than she cares about me, even knowing all of the things that he has done. So I have decided that I will always be polite and friendly with her, but that I will keep my distance. The whole situation is awful and I know how you feel about losing not just a husband but a whole part of your family. I'm going through the same thing and am just so sorry that you are feeling this way too.
