Hey Willing....like I just posted to SadMom....would you like to be with you as a mate? Do you have qualities that make you attractive to her anymore? Are you the same guy she fell in love with in the beginning or do you look like someone totally different from the guy she married?
Take a look at yourself and see what you can do to start bettering yourself....making you look better than something else to her....ultimately....you are doing this for yourself...and if she stays onboard....even better!