Venting is good and this is the place to do it. You need to. It helps. Going away for a week will be good for you. Enjoy yourself. I am so sorry that you also have to feel the loss of the in-laws. I have been fortunate with mine. They have now become more my parents than his. They have told him several times that they don't condone anything he has done and that he broke his marriage vows and his promise to God. They are a very strong, catholic family. They told H that they don't want anything to do with OW and she will never be a part of their family. I am away from my family and my in-laws are the only family i have here. My are a few thousand miles away. I wouldn't have gotten through everything if it hadn't been for them. I hope you have a great week and keep us posted on how everything goes. You are in my thoughts.
