Interesting developments for you to say the least. Sorry if I have missed this but is your W stil with you , if so is she still looking to move out?
We are all still in the same house, she is living in the guest room since she returned from visiting her sister (and OM) in April. I wish I knew what she was thinking, but feel that she needs space for herself to sort things out. Worst case, I will get served. Best case, she will take the time and start taking some postitive action for her own happiness!
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Our sitchs seem quite similar at present , my W had PA ( probably over ) still sees no hope for M , seems depressed , drinking etc and looking to move out evidently for last 6 months.
The drinking and depression go together like old friends (disfunctional, co-dependent ones ). This is very frustrating, but I have decided for now to just monitor and DO NOTHING. Unless she takes a turn for the worse, I think she needs the space to work it out for herself.
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Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
). This is very frustrating, but I have decided for now to just monitor and DO NOTHING. Unless she takes a turn for the worse, I think she needs the space to work it out for herself.
