Well, I suppose he could have elaborated a little more on that. I don't know a thing about California divorce law but I suppose he really meant what he said. Be careful. In other words, watch yourself and make sure you don't do anything that can end up getting you in trouble should she go through with the D.
For instance, I agreed to move out nine months ago and left W with the kids in the rental house. Now I've probably lost any chance of getting custody of my kids because of that.
Also, she's having sex with OM still and in the state of Tennessee if she ends up pregnant by him the child would still be legally mine because I am her husband. Which means she could collect child support for yet another child if we divorce.
Another funny law that I found out about too late is that by sleeping with her after I found out about the affair I can't bring that up in divorce court.
Apparently my wife has gotten food stamps and even though I've been paying all of her bills for the last nine months, the state can come after me for what they've given her in food stamps.
The judge can also decide that all of the money I've given her over the past nine months was a "gift" and order me to back back child support for the past nine months.
I had a cousin who's wife filed divorce papers a couple of years ago and he didn't want the divorce. He didn't show up in court on the appointed date. They ended up getting back together. Well, now she's decided to go ahead and go through with the divorce. His lawyer told him because he didn't contest the papers she filed two years ago then the deal he is getting is whatever was in those papers she filed two years ago.
So, be careful.
By the way, I decided this weekend to go ahead and file because I can't take the games any more and I have to protect myself from all of the above plus whatever else I don't know even know about.
