CA divorce law question

[StupidRomeo2]

First off sorry that I've been away from this board for a while. Long enough that I forgot my login info and had to signup with another username.

My STBXW filed for divorce in March, I responded through my lawyer in April. Since then she hasn't done anything. We see eachother almost every other day due to our D2. Our interaction is very friendly almost as if nothing has happened, laughs, jokes etc. She kept this up even when she filed for the divorce so I can't really rely on her attitude towards me. In fact, this was the problem in our marriage too, she never let it show what was inside her and how she was feeling. She even baked us a pie the night before she moved out and I didn't find out until I returned home the next evening.

Anyway, so my question is how long before her filing is void? I heard after 60 days you have file again. My jerk of a lawyer keeps telling me to fill out forms so "we" can keep going. When I asked him about the validity of the filing after 60 days and explained to him that I'd rather not move forward if she doesn't he responded with "hey if you want to put this on a pause that's fine; just be careful..." what the heck does that suppose to mean?

Anyway, does anyone know anything about this stuff?

SR2 (aka StupidRomeo)