I don't really have anything I can tell you with regards to the PA. My H is still at home and I honestly don't know if there is someone else or not. I don't snoop and he hasn't coughed up any info regarding this.
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And today (hopefully just for today) my pain just turned into anger and I am fed up with his selfishness.
I find the anger comes and goes. I do something physical everyday even if it's just go for a walk (usually a pretty long one). It helps to clear my mind so I can think and not just be emotional.
It's not unusual for a wife that's left to struggle with significant financial loss. Personally, I'm going to be taking some classes in the fall and I'm doing alot of soulsearching regarding my sitch. Just having a job will probably make you feel a little better.
Does your D know? If nothing else this post will bump you back up so that those with more experience here can help.
