That's exactly what my W thinks. Thinks that I'm only changing to get my way, and once I get my way that I'll snap back to who she thinks I am. She doesn't understand how much I really get it now. I'm not done either. Hopefully time will be the proof in the pudding.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."