Well mine just turned 38...and like Sheila she is an abuse survior too. (sigh) I believe the phrase you coined was "strap myself in for the ride"
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."