JDK- thanks. I did pull up a LL quiz online and asked my H to do it. I can't remember where I put the sheet I printed, but I remember my H was Quality time first. That was almost last on mine. I think mine was words or service, can't remember. Ya, I think he has no idea about that part of Rs. I think he thinks that you just be yourself and do what you do, and if it works, great. He's never been one to "try" working on our R. Or maybe he just tries in different ways and I'm not seeing it.

I would love for us to go to a R session of some kind, but I mentioned that after we got back together and he was like, I don't want to do that.

I guess I'm still kinda working on this by myself in a way, but at least we are better, and he wants to be my H forever. So this year is definitely a 100% improvement to last year. It's all a learning experience I know.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."