As a W i can tell you that knowing my H was attractive to someone else and involved with someone else certainly mede me view him afresh. I guess thats what going dark is all about. There's nothing like thinking there is competition out there to make you sit up an think though. I don'y know about your W's but if someone tells me I can't have something it generally makes me want it more!
Hope things start improving soon.
saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
