Light on the horizon

[BeingMe]

Yeah, fun is good. That is one thing my H actually still liked about me during our 'dark times'. I asked him if there was anything he actually liked about me, and he said, "yes, you are fun to go out with". At the time I thought, "gee, thanks", but now I realise that it's nice to be able to relax with someone and just have fun, and if I am that person, than no matter who I end up with, will be one lucky dude.

I hope your W learns to just let lose, and enjoy life. She made her choice to marry you, have children, now it's time to enjoy the fruits of that choice. Can't imagine why she would want to throw it all away, but I guess we all have lessons to learn, and this is just hers.

I remember that book ... you actually recommended it to me, and I loved it (The Peacemaker, if I remember correctly). I asked my H to read it, but he was too busy. Oh well.

Keep up the fun stuff! Life is too short to be morbid, and sad, and struggling to make things work. Sometimes, we just need to let it be, and let The Plan run it's course.