Absolutely !! Shes afraid of facing them because she might not like what she finds.

From what you have told us about your W, I hate to say this but, she sounds like a very self-absorbed, materialistic and, quite frankly, VERY low self esteem person.

She needs to realize it is not about the nails, the tummy tuck or anything else on the outside, she is going to have to go deep, deep inside before she will be able to deal with anything on the outside.

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)