So i found out my wife saw OM last night, when I thought she was out with her friends.
I feel like a chump as i've been asking her how she feels, and if she would like some breakfast thinking she might feel a little under the weather from drinking last night.
She admitted it to me when i asked her how her friends were, and how they got home. She said "i'm sorry, but you were asking" - I said, "i just was interested in your night, i guess i should stop asking." She said "i'm sorry i hurt you", i replied "I guess you must feel like you are doing the right thing or you wouldn't do it"
So what do I do now? i feel like telling her to go to hell, i'm not moving out of my house, she can. Why am I so nice to her? I was nice to her all day yesterday too, I took care of the kids most of the day. Since she was getting ready to go out with her friends. FRIENDS. Nice i guess HE qualifies as her friend. So i'm helping her out so she can be with him. What should i do? Stop being nice to her? Avoid her as much as possible?