I did not mean anything directed at you. In fact truth be told the bigger issue that I would GUESS at in your relationship is that your wife may have some personal issues that need to be addressed.
I still think that sex may be a symptom of that problem/issue with your wife. This does not mean that sex (or the lack there of) is NOT A problem. I just mean I think the root cause is something other than sex. I also think that strictly focusing on sex may actually be counterproductive to getting more sex because of this very reason.
Actually I am not so much for the idea of raincheck as much as we just leave the missed opportunity in the past and move forward to a new day.
I have mentioned it before but I do come from a family where my parents and grandparents were about as open as decent about sex so I have always seen it as a normal part of marriage.
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
