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[SuperDad]

Stillme,
I want to give you one more thing to think about:

Your H is taking YOUR ideas and implementing them in his R with YOUR kids. This means that he is listening to YOU and acting upon YOUR advice.

I think this is a huge baby step. I know that it is hurting you right now that you are not a part of these activities. He could even be doing it on purpose to try to prove to himself/you what a great father he is.

However, he is not detached from you. He still cares what you think! Deep down, I am sure that he still cares about you as well. The problem is that he is afraid to even crack open the door to a new R with you for fear that it will end back up where you were a year ago.

Be patient! There is still hope for your M, even though (or especially because) your H so often says there is not! Keep showing the world what a smart, well adjusted, and yes beautiful (Nomopo showed me the picture at the beach) woman you are. Either he will come around or you will be faced with tough decisions on which of the many courtiers to choose from!

(((Stillme)))

SD