Well as of yet never. I had a 7 year relationship with High school Boyfriend and 15 year relationship (including 10 year marriage) with XH. Granted only 2 years with Raven but I think we will have an even better relationship than the others because we have both learned so much about ourselves throughout the difficult process of watching our marriages be ended by our spouses.

Oh and I guess I should add that I was probably a bit more HD than my XH overall but again it really didn't create that much angst for me. I didn't let a single rejection be any more than what it was; XH being tired from a long day, etc. And to be clear that was the case in the entire 15 year relationship so in no way did it contribute to the end of the marriage.


Last edited by fearless; 06/24/07 06:14 PM.


But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus