Again it's weird for me to read some many of these posts because I have never had so much angst, frustration and difficulty associated with sex in any of my relationships.
Never say never. I'm not a good case to consider since I was too young when I married to have had a lot of sexual relationships that were mature or of significant length (I rarely turned men/boys down for sex but they rarely turned me down either. Actually, I didn't even have to ask that much.)but my sister who is HD like me in the sense that she likes a lot of sex a lot, has been in many relationships and only twice been the HD partner in the sense that she wanted sex much more than the man with whom she was involved and it became the issue in the relationship. It's just like thinking you'll never fight about financial issues in a relationship until you wind up married to a gambler. Of course, now I'm the girl who will run screaming if she sees that her date has a Lotto ticket on his dashboard and that's not right either. Gotta get my head back together.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
