Why do you say you're a failure? In which context are you a failure?

If it's because your M failed, when you gave it all you could, well, then I have to say you're not. You saved you from you - remember you said you didn't have half as good a R with your kids pre bomb as you do now? That is not a failure, your R with your kids is a blessing, one that may not have come about if it were not for the bomb.

Bombs are there to save us from misery - I know mine did, I can see many others on here whose eyes have been opened.

So, Jeff, please spell it out. In what way exactly are you a failure?

Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05
Seperated Sept/Oct 05
Oct 06 - H recomitted
July 11 - I am now a WAW.