I think the biggest thing to increase the attraction for me in her eyes (if its not too late) is Independence. Once we got married, and had kids I basically dropped all my independent activities (other than work). I thought thats what a good father does, he is always with his family. NO. I was wrong, all that made me was a boring unattractive man and father.
I'm with ya there. I just wish I could see the light in GAL. It seems you have.
Hey I live about 20 min north of S.F get time stop by Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know