HELLO. Good luck with that theory. Let me tell you there is no way in h*ck I was going to let my S18 continue living with me ad infinitum so maybe you ought to be a little grateful if you have a wife who is giving you some of what Mom gave you when you were a child. If you actually have a Mom who is sitting around in some little cottage wistfully looking out the window just hoping that you will appear around the corner to eat some of her pie then that might be a problem. When my son is your age, I hope to be doing stuff like hiking the Appalachian trail and f*cking in elder hostels. Of course, there will always be a chair at the turkey table round November for anyone who spent 9 mos. residing in my womb but....
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver