At this point, I'm really just fighting to bust up the affair, and to lead her back to a place where her heart is right with God and she's happy moving forward in her life. If that is with me -- great -- I'd love to try. If it's not, well at least I will feel like I did my job.
This is an excellent goal, Choc. If you look at how you handled last night and this morning, it looks as if you stayed exactly true to this goal.
Good Luck!!
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus