What happens if you call you H on his "meaness"? What happens if you say to your H, "Maybe you would get laid more if you didn't treat me like sh*t". I mean honey, if you know what the problem is what are YOU doing to solve it? The whole solution doesn't reside in your camp but whatever has been happening isn't solving anything so probably the status quo will have to get shifted when YOU shift it.
Excellent. I would fully endorse that approach as well.
