Karen,

I'm sure that's EXACTLY why she doesn't want to go. Plus, she seems to be pizzed off by anything that she wanted me to do before (like color my hair) that I'm doing now, which I can understand, but this is still the right thing to do.

Unfortunately, in Florida, the divorce laws are some of the worst 2 or 3 states in the country for fathers. I will have to let those chips fall where they may. They will take her ability to work and her income into play, but she's looking at years and years of a nice revenue stream from me. Where her behavior and her infidelity WILL come into play, however, is in custody.

Hey, I thought this was kinda funny:

http://www.amazon.com/Why-Men-Love-Bitch...82695731&sr=8-1

I found this book upstairs this morning when I went to go iron the boys' clothes for church. The ironing board is now set up in D20's old room, and wife slept in THERE last night, ON THE FLOOR! Had some blankets spread out, her cellphone charger plugged in next to her, and this book there at the foot of her bed.

Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship (Paperback)