If there is reconcilitiation and they have had ifidelities during the "break" I think that is something each individual has to decide for themselves about how to handle. Myself, I think I will be hurt but not enough to never be with her. If it was done while we were physically living together, that would be a whole different story. I would rather know if we get back together, the wondering would be what would end up driving me insane, finding out I could at least handle quicker than going thru a lifetime with my wife and not knowing. Just my thoughts.
Then again, maybe I am just trying to convince my self of this.

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