Thank you Lillie, and thank you LfF. It was so amazingly strange, and counterintuitive (as this whole danged thing has been, all along) to go to sleep last night, having just had the biggest fight of my marriage, and feeling GOOD about it! Unbelievable.

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She is probably hoping you will crumble, move out, and make her life easier. F#ck that!


That is exactly what she's wanted to happen, LfL. From that first lunch at Olive Garden, the day after I confronted her with my "We Need to Talk" e-mail, what she has wanted is for some sort of separation, and for ME to move out, so that she can carry on a comfortable life of consuming cake. Unh-uh. Not gonna happen.

"Let's see, Wife. You are having an affair, breaking our wedding vows and ripping a bleeding gash in my chest in the process. You tell me you are no longer in love with me, and that you no longer want to be married to me. And you want ME to move out???"

Rrright.