H has PA w/OW and lives at home (he stated that he is separated w/me when he fell in love w,/OW three mo ago). So far I was able to act "as if", clean home, food on the table. Today I feel that I do not want to do anything for him - no cooking or laundry, or anything.
How other people dealt with this dilemma? On one hand I want him to come back home and have a lovely home where he is welcome and his favorite food prepared. On the other hand he is not realizing what he would be missing (his long term plan is D). And today (hopefully just for today) my pain just turned into anger and I am fed up with his selfishness.
I am not working now but I will start next mo altho I bring home 1/5 of what he is making. We have our D from college living w/us for couple more weeks.
