I am sorry that you and your son have suffered so much. I think all of us here know how much pain this gives us...
I have ONE question though...it sounds like your wife has found a pretty rough and tough OM....could it be possible that he is abusing her in any way ? Could it be SHAME that keeps her from looking and talking to you ?? I can only imagine something as strong as that to stop a woman speaking to her own child...the anxiety of what the OM might do to her if she does....
I may be wrong here, just curious to hear your thoughts....
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
