I think that I broke every DB principle tonight. I went to my H's niece's graduation party because he wasn't supposed to be there. Well, about 15 min after I showed up, he shows up driving OW's car, but he didn't have her with him. He hid her at one of his friends house. I told him that we need to talk. He said no we don't. I said what is going on with the D papers. He said that they are in the works. I said you have some nerve coming here driving her car while you are still married to me. I asked him why he didn't bring her with him. He lied and said she wasn't here, he was just driving her car. He walked away from me and I got into her car with him. He said you better get out because you don't know where you are going to end up. I told him I didn't care. I laid into him. I was so mad. I told him that he didn't have any balls and had some nerve being with her for 8 months and then not having the courage to divorce me. I told him a good woman wouldn't have stayed with a married man, and a good man wouldn't have stayed with her. At the end of the conversation, he said well I'm no good anyway, why do you want anything to do with me. I told him I made a promise, for better or worse till death do us part and you made the same promise.
I guess he came back hours later and realized that I was still there so he left me a nasty vm, saying that he couldn't even go to her party because of me. Then, later he sent me a tm that said I guess I don't have any balls, but you sure do. I'm detaching. I didn't call him back, didn't tm him back. These are childish games and I'm not playing them. I am a good person and deserve better.
I am officially done, not turning back done. I am going to call his attorney on Monday to see if he contacted him about getting new papers.
