Lisa, I think you're doing a great job. Do whatever it takes to take care of those kiddos and give them the best that you've got. The others are right- divorce can always be delayed
Take care of Lisa and your kids. Set boundaries and make them clear to him, AND to you. Make them simple enough to remember. If you still have any hope for reconciliation, tell him that but tell him you have to work on you so that you can be the best for your kids. If he does as he says he's going to do, encourage him along the way and let him know you are not part of his solution. You both have to get healthy before you can take on the task of rebuilding your family.
