Is that REALLY the truth Lou or do they just say that for fear it might get back to their wives? I will say most guys have empathy for women and what they experience.
I don't know any guy that wants to get PG and I think some guys feel luck they don't have to do all the female things so they might get frustrated with the woman in his life but the guy knows it isn't easy, so he allows for the extra things women have to experience.
But it wasn't until years later when he asked me to go through his medical records for a personal matter he was dealing with that I saw a notation about how my reduction lessened his desire (I was crushed) This is just me HW. I saw what women went through with over sized breasts. I would not want that for myself so wouldn't want it for BB.
I can imagine my desire being lessened if BB had breast pain because she was too large. I don't know all of the problems with large breasts but I did listen carefully to the few reduction programs on the medical channel.
Before surgery I could relate to the problems. After surgery the scars looked somewhat painful but I thought the women were better looking post surgery. I saw more smiles and that was enough for me to say WTG mentally to the women on the TV program.
What looks gross are the topless dancers that get breast implants and have names like Dew, Honey melons. I wouldn’t wish those EEE’s or larger breast on anyone.
But like a lot of things in life, some women have then naturally. In that case I say do what feels like it is right to the woman.
BB has 1 small breasts and a half of a small breast due to a lumpectomy and I don’t think any less of her. Chit happens. Unfortunately chit happens to more women than men.
And another thing, each and every one of could have been the other sex. Gender was determined by which X-Y sperm got the job done first. So don’t be proud/ashamed you are male or female. College biology and several other classes changed my mind about quite a few things.