Ex-w came to get her stuff today-finally! I will be signing on the house Monday. Great, I now have 15 years to pay on the same house I had ten years to pay on just the day before. Son's car has a blown engine and I cannot afford to get it fixed, especailly since my house note is going up about 200 plus dollars a month! (Thanks again, Ex-w!) Ex-w did not speak to our son or me at all really, did not say goodbye. Does not want to help out with bills even though she will be getting close to 30k when I sign papers on the house.
Tell me, especailly RCR, when are things going to get BETTER? When is she going to own up to her responsibilities as a mother again? I saw my son on the back porch in tears, him not wanting to talk to any of "her people" that were there. His mom NEVER ENVEN ACKNOWLEDGED HE WAS UPSET, NEVER WENT OUTSIDE TO CHECK ON HIM, LEFT WITHOUT SAYING A WORD TO HIM.
Where is her head, where is her "mothering" instinct, or is it still "all about OM" and what he wants. She has said son cannot move in with her and I believe it is not a good idea for him to anyway.
Toncatt, good to see you here again! I was wondering about you. To answer your question about things getting better, well, the simple answer to that is they won't until YOU DECIDE to do better for YOURSELF. I'm sorry if that sounds a little curt, but its the God's honest truth. Toncatt, the fact of the matter is this; its still about the OM with your XW, She ISN'T going to be a mother or do what she needs to with your son, also Toncatt, you CANNOT contol the actions of her or any other person besides YOURSELF. As much as you want things to be a certain way they are not going to be. I know what you are thinking and saying; its not fair, it sucks, I have been crapped on. All of the above is true, but Toncatt, life isn't fair dude, as much as we think it should be or want it to be. People also don't always get what they deserve good or bad. Toncatt, you can do one of two things, lay there and let them kick you in the mouth or get up swinging. Take advice from a friend, get your ass off the floor and don't give that sorry excuse for a mother the satisfaction! Good luck dude!!!
