It's so darn complicated!!! You see I knew he was starting to question his life and his unfulfilled dreams about 3 yrs. ago.
I remember thinking when he came to me with the idea of opening a Coffee/Tea house that this was probably his mlc. Even though I told him I didn't think it was a good idea...too much of a risk, etc.
I ended up supporting him and his dream to own his own bus. But, that included me having to run it primarily cuz he wanted to keep his 9 to 5 (salary, benefits, etc.)
Well, long story short, he also began the affair. I didn't know at first. But here's the punch line. The almost $180,000. loan for the store rests on our house as a second. Meaning that if the store doesn't do well, I lose the house!
As much as I would like to just walk away, it would only hurt me in the long run. The D deal is that I get to keep the house until my 3rd child reaches 18. He's 11.
I have got the store up for sale, as that is my priority now. He says he wants to sell also but moves at the pace of a snail.
I am currently finding ways to not let this happen again.
Anyway you're right I can't let him do this kind of thing!
