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the guys I know don’t think any less of their female friends because something was removed


Is that REALLY the truth Lou or do they just say that for fear it might get back to their wives? I know when I got my reduction, my H didn't say a word to me. He wouldn't look at me for ages (said he couldn't stand to see the incisions - which I totally understand, he's a bit squemish in that regard). But it wasn't until years later when he asked me to go through his medical records for a personal matter he was dealing with that I saw a notation about how my reduction lessened his desire (I was crushed)

So maybe you say these things but you don't really feel them - just my take on it



Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)